Alright folks, I need the hive mind on this one. I have been running Google Family Link on my kid's phone since forever and honestly it did the job when they were little. Screen time caps, app approvals, a dot on a map telling me where the phone is. Nice and free. The problem is my kid is not little anymore, and Family Link is starting to feel like a screen door on a submarine.
Here is what keeps bugging me. The web filtering basically only holds up inside Chrome, so the second a different browser gets installed the whole thing leaks. There is no real geofencing, meaning I cannot get an alert when they arrive at school or leave a friend's house, I just get a live pin if I go looking. And do not get me started on the bypass situation. A ten-second search turns up a dozen tricks for getting around it, and my kid is way more online than I was at that age.
So I am shopping around for something with more teeth. My wishlist looks like this. One, screen time management that is actually granular, not just a bedtime lock. Two, content filtering that works everywhere, not just one browser. Three, proper location and safety stuff with zone alerts. Four, broad device support because we are a mixed household with an iPhone, a couple of Android tablets, and a laptop. Five, and this is the big one, controls that a determined teen cannot uninstall or disable in five minutes.
I am not trying to snoop on every text or become the phone police. I just want guardrails that keep pace as the needs shift. Free would be great but I will pay if the thing genuinely works. What are you all using that actually holds up? Drop your picks, your setups, whatever. Roast my current setup if you must, just point me somewhere better.