Is there a way to track text messages on an iPhone secretly? Which app works best in stealth mode? Have you guys used any? Need recommendations.
Yes, it is possible. You can use Xnspy to track text messages on an iPhone. Xnspy works best in stealth mode, doesn’t appear in the notification bar or at home screen, truly invisible. The best thing is that the app doesn’t cause any issues with the device functionality or battery drainage, so the target device user can use the device without any inconvenience.
It’s easy to set up, and the dashboard provides all the data regarding text messages, iMessages, and even the deleted texts through real-time monitoring and a screen recorder. My experience with the app so far has been great, so try it if you want to!!
Also, are you looking for only text message monitoring or an overall tracking tool for kids?
You don’t need any monitoring app when it comes to tracking text messages on iPhones. You can use Parental Controls (Screen Time) to set up Screen Time on a child’s device to manage communication, track location, and scan their text messages.
I agree with you @TitanMatrix
Started using Xnspy, and I can sleep peacefully now. Being a parent, its imprpotnt to get a reliable monitoring app so your kids can stay safe. The app syncs all the text message data, and you can even set alerts for specific keywords. How useful!! 
I’d suggest going Xnpsy if you are looking for text message tracking in stealth mode.
Apple devices do provide a workaorund it. If you want to track text messages, you can add their iCloud account to your device and sync all the data.
Settings → tap the Apple ID name
iCloud → Messages
Toggle Sync this iPhone ON
Do the same on the second device using the same Apple ID.
On both devices:
Settings → Messages
Turn iMessage ON
Confirm that the same Apple ID is selected under Send & Receive
After doing this, you will be able to monitor text messages without physically accessing the other phone.
I have experimented with a few different approaches on my kids’ iPhones. Sharing one Apple ID and using iCloud message syncing does let messages appear on multiple devices, but it gets messy fast. Contacts, photos, and other data all start blending, which wasn’t ideal.
For more detailed message visibility, I ended up using Xnspy. It gave access to full message history, including deleted texts, and didn’t require managing their Apple ID or constantly creating iCloud backups. Compared to methods that need repeated physical access to the phone, it felt more straightforward to manage day to day.
Alright, setting all the tech talk aside for a moment, here’s the real pro tip most parents overlook: talk to your kids. Shocking, I know 
Back in the day, there were no tracking apps; most of us turned out just fine because we had something better: open, honest conversations.
Before jumping straight to installing apps, start with clear and healthy boundaries. At the end of the day, trust and communication will protect your child far more than any app ever could.
@GlassTech, I have got a better solution.
Instead of sharing one Apple ID:
Use Family Sharing
Each person keeps their own Apple ID
Parents manage devices without sharing passwords
Fewer sync conflicts and security issues